Culture Isn’t the Problem—It’s the Practice: Why Micro-Moments Define Your Leadership Legacy
In most organizations, culture is either overstated or underestimated.
You’ve probably heard it before:
“We need to fix our culture.”
Or…
“Let’s revisit our values.”
But what if the real issue isn’t culture itself?
What if culture is actually your best shot at solving what’s broken—if you know how to read it?
In this week’s episode of the Leaders Rising Podcast, Jeff Lovell and Aaron Lee unpack a powerful reframing:
Culture isn’t the problem—it’s the practice.
And if you’re a leader inside a growing company, your culture is being shaped right now. Not by what you say, but by what you do when values get tested.
Culture Is Revealed Where Behavior Collides With Values
Every organization has stated values.
But those values only become culture when they’re put into practice—especially under pressure.
Jeff offers this lens:
“Culture is revealed when behavior collides with values.”
You might say you value collaboration. But when deadlines get tight, does competition creep in?
You might preach transparency. But when feedback is hard, do you shut it down or passively dismiss it?
That gap—between what’s said and what’s done—is your culture. And the gap itself is not the problem.
The problem is what leaders choose to do next.
The Silent Culture-Killer: Footnoting Your Values
Jeff calls it “footnoting.”
Those subtle disclaimers that undo your best intentions.
- We care about our people… but not when they’re underperforming.
- We value work-life balance… but reward the midnight email senders.
- We want feedback… unless it’s uncomfortable.
Every organization does this. Every leader has blind spots.
But the highest-performing teams are led by people willing to acknowledge the gap and step into it.
The difference is leadership courage.
Feedback as a Cultural X-Ray
Feedback is one of the clearest indicators of real culture.
In the episode, Aaron shares the story of an upstart company receiving all five-star reviews—and the question he posed:
What happens when you get your first two-star rating?
That’s the moment of truth.
Do you hide it? Deflect it? Snark it?
Or do you learn from it and invite growth?
Whether it’s customer feedback or internal team reflections, culture is formed in how we respond to truth.
Want a strong culture? Stop fearing the truth. Start training your team to receive it well.
Client Spotlight: Culture Gaps in a High-Performing Company
One client—a growing manufacturing firm—had the numbers.
Revenue was solid. Strategy was clear. Talent looked great on paper.
But turnover was up. Frustration was brewing.
The Chief People Officer said it plainly:
“Our culture is slipping.”
What was really happening?
They were solving problems, but in ways that didn’t align with their stated values. Execution had overtaken empathy. Leaders weren’t listening. Feedback was filtered. Friction rose in the middle layers, even as the C-suite celebrated wins.
So we walked with them through a team performance assessment—uncovering where expectations, behavior, and experience were misaligned.
And we helped them realign their values not just in language, but in daily leadership behavior.
It wasn’t a culture problem.
It was a leadership opportunity.
You Don’t Need a Culture Overhaul. You Need a Practice.
Here’s what we tell every client:
Culture doesn’t have to be perfect. But it must be practiced.
You don’t need a retreat to fix this. You don’t need a new poster.
You need a team of leaders who show up intentionally in micro-moments:
- Starting meetings on time
- Asking the extra question when someone’s stressed
- Noticing when feedback has gone quiet
- Celebrating wins before setting the next goal
- Holding to values even when outcomes tempt shortcuts
We call this micro-shaping the culture—and every leader, at every level, has the power to do it.
So What Can You Do This Week?
Ask your team this bold question:
“What’s a current challenge where our culture isn’t showing up the way we say it does?”
Then, be quiet and listen.
Don’t defend. Don’t explain. Just notice.
That moment of silence might be the most important culture-building moment of your quarter.
And if you want to dig deeper, we’ve built a tool to help you reflect on your values, your behavior, and where you might need to step in as a leader.
Take the Next Step
- See where you stand: Start with the 3 minute Leadership Culture Wayfinder to see what stage you’re in.
- Ask your team the bold question from this episode
Your everyday actions are shaping culture. Let’s make them count!
